i would say go with a wig that you can cut, style and dye and what not, but then again, i'm half native american and my hair is about equal to being my baby. well, on the other hand, later today, i'm dying it a not natural color for the first time ;.;. the only colors i dye it is black, but that's what it naturally is, and one time, i dyed my hair blonde,so it would be light enough to make it red. and it was a total fail, the top of my head, in the end was pumpkin orange, and i cried for almost a day.